See What Unfolds

Three years ago I found myself knee deep in adventure, awe, and bliss. I was becoming whole again and rediscovering the thirst for life I had buried deep within me after a heartbreaking relationship. Winning the Gilman scholarship to study abroad was the nail in the coffin. He wasn’t happy for me and worse, he wanted to destroy our relationship and my self esteem in the process.

I packed my bags and boarded a plane on New Years Eve to Paris. The only celebration evident during the red eye flight was a lone person clapping after the flight attendant announced it was midnight. I blinked and was numb and alone. Traveling to another time zone far away from everything I once considered home. I cried in my seat silently as I watched Wall-E for the first time. Animated movies usually get to me but this time the sweet story managed to unleash my raw and untamed emotions with reckless abandon. After all, we had only just broken up a couple days before my departure.

And then a series of beautiful moments awakened my soul. I let myself experience everything in slow motion. I hit pause.

I noticed so many things around me now like how this stranger fully dressed in his tux, strolled over to this wall and lay down in the middle of the day. I was mesmerized by everything going on outside of what used to be my bubble.

I ordered foods that had always scared me.

Salmon

- Steak Tartare with raw egg (you may be cringing but it was unbelievably delicious!)

And savored every morsel of my experiences.

I closed my eyes a lot during this time and yet had never felt more awake during each moment. You can’t tell but this dessert was surprising.They caught me savoring it after I realized it had pop rocks in it :D

Chocolate and exploding candy are a winning combination friends!

I did other unimaginable things like wake up extra early to walk a couple miles to school because the path was so beautiful even though I’m not a morning person.

I didn’t shy away from speaking to strangers in French as I had with Italian. My fluency was incredible as a result and I earned a diploma in fluency after taking their national test.

I dated the good guy instead of the rebel. I had a choice and went for the guy who treated me well all the time instead of just the one that charmed me. It turned out to be a great decision because we traveled to Switzerland, laughed all the time, and learned a lot from each other.

This swan swam right up to me in Switzerland. At the moment I felt like nature was acknowledging that I was now on the right path.

It felt so good to be myself again. The curious, opinionated, sassy, confident, explorer. The girl that enjoyed having many friends and throwing parties. I had organized international pot lucks, dance nights, and a weekly 3 course lunch at my favorite bistro.

I dressed up and felt beautiful. I was finally home. At home with myself and it didn’t matter that I was across an ocean from Miami. I had found inner peace and learned to embrace change. I look so happy here :)

Life was good, positive, and bright just the way it should be. When was the last time you felt that kind of freedom to follow your whims and breathe deeply?

Trident has a great campaign that is all about the spark that ignites a journey connecting you to the positivity you’ve always had inside. I’d really love to hear about your journeys whether they be big or small.

This fun video is brought to you by great tasting Trident Gum. See what unfolds:

Did you try something new lately?

Are you considering taking a trip or getting out of your comfort zone?

Who are you really? And what makes you absolutely blissful?

While you’re figuring out your next adventure, I recommend trying the new Peach/Mango Layers gum! It is very fragrant and such a fun change from the typical minty flavors. My challenge to you is to try something new this week and veer from your norm. Just for fun, step outside of your usual routine and send me a picture or an e-mail telling me about it. I’ll post all the ones I receive here so that we can all get inspired by each other.
This is part of a sponsored campaign with Latina Mom Bloggers and TRIDENT. However, all opinions expressed are my own. This story is my own.

 

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16 Responses to See What Unfolds

  1. So true that all things happen for a reason. I think I’m following my whims right now, and life is beautiful. I can’t wait until the next time we meet!
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  2. Eva Smith says:

    Love your heart warming story. My favorite is the Mango-peach too.
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  3. What a fun story! Thank you for sharing.

    I think it’s so important to go outside of your comfort zone once in awhile. It’s humbling to remember that there is a great, big world out there :)
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  4. Your trip looks like one to remember. I can only imagine how scared you were, but you now have so many awesome memories from the experience! That’s what I try to tell myself when I get scared and try to back out of something that is out of my comfort zone – life keeps going, you just have to decide whether to jump into it or hold back. And the latter doesn’t do you any good…
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  5. Such a beautiful post!
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  6. Kaitlyn says:

    Traveling certainly does awaken our souls. Thanks for sharing your story.
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    • Road Jane says:

      It truly does. I love how it gives you perspective and shifts your appreciation to more important things like experiencing each moment thoroughly.

  7. Great post! I have never been to Europe, let alone Paris. But I know it’s a city I would love!
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    • Road Jane says:

      aw Paris was all kinds of beautiful. A dream in real life. Very busy city with diverse people breezing by. You’d love it Alysha!

  8. Great story. I’m so glad everything turned out to be such a positive experience! Trying new things can be so scary. I get nervous just to meet new people. I can’t imagine flying somewhere completely foreign where I don’t know anyone!
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    • Road Jane says:

      Thanks Jessica. I wasn’t expecting to grow so much from the experience and for a couple weeks I felt a little angry that he had caused me pain right before leaving, essentially marring my excitement. But luckily it turned out well. We’ve all got some kind of adventurous spirit inside and can adapt to much more than we think we are capable of. I think you would thrive especially due to how you enjoy exploring your local scene so much. Same thing foreign place :)

  9. oh my gosh that was sooo beautifully written!!
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  10. Jess says:

    Love this post! I wish I lived everyday this way!!! Beautiful!!!
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    • Road Jane says:

      Me too. It’s difficult to be so free and adventurous all the time because day to day minutiae gets in the way. I’m trying to get back to that place where I felt like I was truly myself. I miss the feeling.

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